Singing Kids - Does
Your Child Have Star Potential?
Singing kids. Do
you have one? I mean one of those kids who just won't stop, who goes around
singing to themselves or to anyone they can trap and tie down. This is an
all-too-familiar scenario; Mom and Dad aren't musically inclined, but their kid
has talent. How do they know whether their child has what it takes to be a
success? How does a parent know if they should consider taking out a second
mortgage on the house to support little Suzie's big ambitions?
Even more
importantly, parents of talented singing kids need to be absolutely certain
that the driving force behind the dream of superstardom is their child and not
them. Fortunately, in my experience, it's more often the kids.
When I asked
young Taylor Ware, the national Yahoo yodeling champion and America's Got
Talent runner-up, what she wanted for Christmas that year, she solemnly
told me that she had written to Santa asking him to bring her a tour bus. I
would say this girl is clearly in the driver's seat.
When Miley Cyrus
first came to work with me, she was the consummate professional at the tender
age of 12, complete with her own assistant. She had great parenting and was one
of the most balanced and happy of all the singing kids I have taught. I did not
get the sense that her childhood had been compromised in any way by her career.
As a place to
start, parents should consider the following ten issues in order to gain
valuable insight into their child's potential for stardom. The evaluations will
help parents make the right decision about what to do when their child
announces they want to be a superstar. This list addresses motivation and
talent -- both of which are essential to a successful career in music.
You might have a
winner on your hands if your child:
1. Is motivated more by making
music than by the promise of stardom
2. Willingly passes up other
activities in order to practice music lessons
3. Learns from shows like American Idol and America's Got Talent
4. Seems passionate about singing,
always looking for places to perform
5. Handles constructive criticism
and rejection by learning from it
6. Sings as well a cappella as they
do singing along with the radio
7. Personalizes popular songs by
adding their own special touches
8. Sounds as good to music
professionals as the singers on the radio
9. Feels at ease in the spotlight
and comfortable relating to an audience
10.Gets frequent requests to perform
in public
If the answer
was 'no' to several of these questions, don't rush off to the bank for that
second mortgage. Your child may be talented, but most likely may not have
everything it takes to have a successful career. Be encouraging and give them
time to explore their talent.
Revisit these
ten issues in a year or two and assess your child's progress. If there has not
been substantial improvement, consider that your child may be destined to use
their talent in the church choir or in a local band for fun, rather than for
profit as a music professional.
Encourage your
singing kids and support them as best you can. Seek professional guidance for
responsible ways to help them grow musically. Remember, the drive for a music
career must always be theirs, not yours.
Nashville vocal coach Renee Grant-Williams reveals the trade
secrets that have already helped hundreds of aspiring singers become
celebrities: Tim McGraw, Martina McBride, Dixie Chicks, Miley Cyrus, Huey
Lewis, Kenny Chesney, Faith Hill, Jason Aldean, Christina Aguilera...
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